True love gets killed off by conflict in relationships all over the world. So to keep true love alive, learn to reduce conflict. It isn't difficult and pays off for years.
To begin with, you cant end all conflict. Conflict and disagreement between two adults is normal and to be expected. Learning to argue in a healthy way is the key. Shows like Oprah and lots of books and courses can teach you to fight fair and to minimize the damage conflict causes to your relationships.
However, is there a way to stop most conflict before it ever starts? Would it help you to keep true love alive if you reduced the conflict in your relationship by over 50%?
There is a way to stop conflict that is powerful, effective, and you dont need to take a class on conflict to do it. Even better, you can put it to use in your relationship to minimize conflict starting just minutes after you finish this article. Its that simple and powerful.
Here is the secret way to cut conflict in half in any relationship. PLAY more. Playing with your mate is a proven way to reduce conflict and keep true love alive. Studies have shown that the more play between couples, the less conflict.
Conflict and play go hand in hand. The more play in your love life, the less conflict. In the beginning you played a lot with your mate. You went to movies, had lots of sex, went dancing. You engaged in all kinds of fun activities. There was lots more play than fighting in the beginning.
But then the honeymoon phase wears off and things change. We have jobs and burdens and kids and the play begins to diminish in our relationship. True love starts to disappear some. And of course conflict starts to grow.
So a powerful thing you can do to reverse this trend and feel more true love again is to simply play more in your love life. You don't need a ton of play. Just a few minutes a day of sexy hugs or gong for a walk around the neighborhood together after dinner can do it. Have at least one date night a week. Add more play into your relationship and see if you start to reduce the conflict and increase the true love.
To begin with, you cant end all conflict. Conflict and disagreement between two adults is normal and to be expected. Learning to argue in a healthy way is the key. Shows like Oprah and lots of books and courses can teach you to fight fair and to minimize the damage conflict causes to your relationships.
However, is there a way to stop most conflict before it ever starts? Would it help you to keep true love alive if you reduced the conflict in your relationship by over 50%?
There is a way to stop conflict that is powerful, effective, and you dont need to take a class on conflict to do it. Even better, you can put it to use in your relationship to minimize conflict starting just minutes after you finish this article. Its that simple and powerful.
Here is the secret way to cut conflict in half in any relationship. PLAY more. Playing with your mate is a proven way to reduce conflict and keep true love alive. Studies have shown that the more play between couples, the less conflict.
Conflict and play go hand in hand. The more play in your love life, the less conflict. In the beginning you played a lot with your mate. You went to movies, had lots of sex, went dancing. You engaged in all kinds of fun activities. There was lots more play than fighting in the beginning.
But then the honeymoon phase wears off and things change. We have jobs and burdens and kids and the play begins to diminish in our relationship. True love starts to disappear some. And of course conflict starts to grow.
So a powerful thing you can do to reverse this trend and feel more true love again is to simply play more in your love life. You don't need a ton of play. Just a few minutes a day of sexy hugs or gong for a walk around the neighborhood together after dinner can do it. Have at least one date night a week. Add more play into your relationship and see if you start to reduce the conflict and increase the true love.
About the Author:
You can discover more in the free course 7 Vital True Love Insights Your Mamma Never Taught You at Keeping True Love Alive. Johnnie S Laney teaches relationship and emotional intelligence courses and you can get more here True Love Advice.
